Community

Today, it is said that there is a friendship recession. One in every five unmarried men say they have no close friends. While people depend on their electronics to communicate, we are moving further and further away from a human connection. No one is looking up anymore. They’re all looking down into their phones. This is not good. It may lead to isolation and loneliness. It’s not natural. Humans need interaction and relationships with one another.  

I understand that everyone doesn't have a tribe of friends or is traveling through life with an entourage; and some people like to be by themselves, But for those who do not may I suggest the word - “ Community”?

Community – A group of people living in the same place or having a particular characteristic in common. A connection with others as a result of sharing common ideas, attitudes or goals. 

Sometimes it's hard-to-find community. That connection with likeminded people; A place to contribute your knowledge, culture, and opinions.  A comfortable place to share with others without judgement. None the less, there is a community out there for everyone.  

So, I challenge you to try.  Try to connect with a community.  It doesn’t have to be big or a popular group, just someplace where you can share and receive some good vibes. A place that has some of the same values as you. Someplace that shares your interests. It could be a barber shop, a church, green thumb group, a book club, a dance class, a political group, anything that sparks your interest. A safe space that keeps you connected to people.  A group or organization that you enjoy and helps you grow in a positive way.  A place where you can be heard and feel at peace.  A community that excites and motivates you.

Now, there are a couple of general rules. 1. Be respectful of others’ opinions. 2. Be consistent in attending.  3. Show up to the plans and events that your group agrees to participate in. 

There is strength and power in human relationships. There is a human exchange that you get when you engage other people, that sparks conversation, intellect, and compassion. Connecting with people produces energy that will convey emotion and stimulate thoughts to be shared and built upon. 

Humans are not made to be alone.  If we were than God would have left Adam right there in the garden, talking to the animals. Instead, he gave him a companion to engage with.

All I’m saying is, there’s enough of us to have a friend, a partner, a confidant. No one is meant to be alone.  

Try reaching out to a community. If you get with the right group, it should enrich your life.